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Monday, July 4th

“I recently found out that my father is having an affair. I confronted him, and he asked me not to tell my mother. I feel like I have a responsibility to look out for my mother's best interests. But if I tell her, she'll be heart-broken, and my father will blame me. Am I supposed to pretend that everything is okay when it's not? I feel like I really need to talk to someone about this. I don't know what I'm supposed to do, and I can't focus on school when I'm so worried about my parents. Can someone at SCRS help me?”

WHAT SCRS CAN DO:

  • give you a space in which you can talk about your feelings of anger and confusion
  • help you figure out what your role should be in this difficult situation

DISCLAIMER: None of the vignettes are based on actual University of Chicago students or specific incidents. The vignettes suggest possible scenarios but do not represent any particular University students. The SCRS maintains a strict confidentiality policy that is outlined our Policies section.

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